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lies

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Sometimes people pretend you are a bad person so they don't feel guilty for how they treated you. I found this on instagram and it resonated with me. I'm often accused of being a bad person with no explanation why. I'm often told that I lie and I cannot be trusted. I'm called a psychopath. This list could go on and on.  as far as lies are concerned this accusation is ridiculous. First of all I have nothing to lie about. I have no secrets and a fairly boring life. I go to work and sleep and eat. Not sure what I could lie about. I also do not care about other ppl opinions about me so I have no reason to make things up. This is not all however. I absolutely detest lying. This is one of my core values that is really deeply embedded into who I'm. I cannot lie even if I wanted to. A few lies I said when I was a kid still haunt me. I have no idea why my partner believes I lie and says that I cannot be trusted. I'm also on the spectrum and I often make a mistake of sayi...

suitcases drama

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 This is one of those "my life is so ridiculous I don't know how to describe it" notes. Our daughter is going to a camp on Monday. She needs a suitcase to pack. We have a pile of suitcases in the shed so we went there and picked one. Once we brought it home we were told that we were not allowed to use it as it belonged to my partner. We tried another one - the same story. Somehow she owns the suitcases. For me they are family property. Anyone can use them. Even if a neighbour came and asked to borrow one I would not hesitate to let him use whichever he wanted. However our daughter is not allowed. It got to a point when my partner decided to change the code and lock them so no one could use them besides her. This is just silly, like a kid in a sandpit taking his bucket away so others cannot use it. I spent an hour talking about it and no matter what my arguments were I didn't accomplish anything. Even before I got home (this whole situation happened when I was away) I ...