time to give up?
It is early in the morning, way before my usual wake up time. For some reason I cannot sleep and I can hear my partner rebuking the cat for pooping on the floor "you are a lying, cheating bastard like your owner, you come to me for food and then misbehave" This wasn't said in anger to me to upset me. This wasn't said in an argument. This was a casual remark to a cat. I wasn't even in the picture. I can forgive things that are shouted in anger, I get it that people not always control themselves and the emotions can take over. But this? I decided to confront my partner about it later in the morning. I was told that this is what she thinks about me. A simple fact. I do not think this is something I can fix. If I lied or cheated I could bring flowers, apologise and promise to never ever do that again, hoping for some forgiveness etc. I could try to fix my mistake in many ways. There would have been options. But the thing is I never did. I cannot apologise for somet...